At this time when America is so much in the news I’m missing all those things that were America to us.
- Watching NFL in a bar on a Sunday all afternoon…
- Wearing a baseball cap and really casual clothes…
- Drinking American IPA in sensible sized pints
Though London and the UK more widely are catching up to what a great game this is, because of the time difference it’s really hard to watch our favourite teams live. Unless you have Sky TV (and can stay up real late) you can only catch the early Sunday afternoon matches – at very select bars. We found out that our local does show these, from 6pm UK time, but at 7.30pm the football is relegated to the background as they have their pub quiz (or trivia as my American friends know it).
Matt Herschberger has written how American casual doesn’t really fit in large parts of London (I reacted to his article here). I’ve tried wearing my baseball caps and Nats gear, but I’ve had to give in to the increasingly hipster vibe and be a bit smarter on the weekends.
Talking of hipster culture, the UK is also really catching up on the craft brewing front. I’ll go into this in more detail soon, but my area has recently acquired a whole mile of breweries, all of which do decent IPAs. Half pints are available, and indeed are to be recommended for the really strong beers they’re brewing round here now.
But I also miss:
- Being able to hire a car that we can both drive…
- Getting on the road and driving for hours through the most amazing scenery…
- Singing along to country music.
This last one we’ve been able to replicate thanks to Youtube and Spotify, but we have acquired a reputation as having slightly strange music taste. In terms of car radio music, we have enjoyed reacquainting ourselves with British cheese, especially eighties music, and we did have quite a bit of fun finding some typical French rap when we were driving to Bordeaux back in the summer.
But the attitude to hire cars – and street car schemes – in the UK is very different to the States. It’s more expensive to hire an automatic and there are quite high extra charges for each additional driver. Back in the US I don’t think they even asked to see my licence when we hired a car – the fact that we said we were married was enough to give me driving rights with no extra charge. This was great because I only had a learner permit, and I got to practice while driving my husband around the vineyards of Southern California… The hire car place in France was also fine with my American licence and our marital status, so I got my first experience of driving the narrow country roads of the old wine country. There’s just something about being able to skip the mediocre hotel breakfast and drive down to the nearest village for pastries and espresso…
Which brings me to some other things I’m missing:
- Being able to reliably get good coffee…
- And good (cheap) brunch.
I was at a conference centre recently with truly awful coffee. It was cruel and unusual and should be illegal.
I took coffee and brunch for granted in the States. And while I think we probably can get some good brunch in London if we make a date for it, maybe book, and travel a bit, it’s not the same as being able to go across the road to the Diner. On the upside we’re getting good at making our own eggs and pancakes and we can now get our favourite bacon and brunch on bacon sandwiches.
Other good brunch/lunch options that have opened up in our area are a really good salt beef and pastrami place – Monty’s Deli. And, round the corner, Maltby Street Market has an interesting looking waffle stall. So there’s definitely potential.
However, there are some things we can’t replicate. Here are some of the bigger, intangible, ‘this is America’ type stuff that people weave a national identity around, and that I miss more than I thought I would:
- Going to the baseball (I can see why this is practically a religion)
- Celebrating 4th July, or Halloween, and Thanksgiving… and all the other holidays…
Not because I particularly liked all the holidays, but because we got to celebrate with enthusiasm in the States. There was irony – ‘Merica! – but not often, and only on the surface.
Now I’m being ironic – especially seeing as how recently we’ve taken control back from Europe (more irony).
- DC politics…
I know it might sound strange, but there was something about being in the DC bubble, where sports bars showed the debate, and the local paper went into great detail on local, regional and national politics. Though I couldn’t vote I certainly had my own strong views on abortion rights, gun control, and statehood for DC and Puerto Rico.
So right now I’m missing lots of things about America. I’m also worried for this country that welcomed me in for a while: is it going to become more right-wing, more misogynist, racist, more disruptive to world politics?
I’ll certainly be watching the election tonight and hoping that the result is that which will preserve everything I loved about America. Good luck friends!
7 thoughts on “Missing the States”
It somehow makes me feel a little braver to know there are friends across the ocean rooting for us! We are all very, very anxious.
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I could barely work today I’m so nervous about it. Fingers crossed for the right result!
I miss all those things about America as well and can’t wait to read about these good craft breweries in the U.K.! This election has been stressful, I’m glad I missed the political ads and a lot of the discussions. I’ve mailed in my ballot though, and hopefully we’ll be making history soon with the first female president!
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I’m hoping to go back to Ohio next year and am currently anxious because it’s become one of the key swing states. I was proud to be there in April as they’d rejected Trump as Republicam candidate and gone for their governor, Kasich, a rather more traditional GOP type. I can’t imagine how it must feel for you after having spent so long Stateside. I’m in love with the place after a short holiday. Finger crossed things turn out for the best tonight.
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For some reason only just saw this. I’m having trouble finding the words since it happened. I’m so disheartened by Wisconsin in particular. Of course DC and Virginia went for Hilary, but I feel so very sad for my friends who live there and now have to live next door to that evil Dorito…
I swear you folks are more American than I am in some ways! I adore this post – I needed a little positive reflection on the US this week – and I’ll have to remember to bring you some good coffee the next time I manage to visit London.
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